I help women break the stigma of BPD & create lives they dream about

Years ago I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). I remember the air stopped moving when I received that diagnosis. I had intense and immediate SHAME in being labeled with a personality disorder. It rocked me to my core.

“Sorry, Amanda. It turns out you’re definitely not like other people at all – you have an incurable personality DISORDER. All those years you didn’t fit in IS actually because you don’t fit in.”

Through years of meds, therapy and drinking myself into a stupor while riding the emotional rollercoaster of my brain, I finally stumbled upon Life Coaching.

I learned how to meet myself where I was at. I learned how to treat myself FIRST with love and respect and caring. I learned how to rewrite the story I told about myself and others. And in doing that I changed my relationship with everybody and everything else.

I now lead a life I once could only DREAM about. One where I get to be married to a wonderful man, one where I have a beautiful and loving and stable relationship with my children. I have an incredible career and live in a magical house tucked up into the mountains where I’ve always dreamed of living.

I’m here to tell you that you can have the same kind of success. I can teach you exactly how to do it.

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S2 E10 Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide

by Amanda Hess | Jun 16, 2022

I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder over 10 years ago and I tried all the different kinds of therapy. But in trying to figure out my own "cure" I stumbled upon coaching. It turns out, it helped me change my entire life. Today I am sharing exactly...

S2 E9 You Don’t Have To Stop Thinking Negative

by Amanda Hess | Jun 16, 2022

When you have negative thoughts, it can be tempting to think that the way to fix your life is simply to start thinking positive. And that would be great, if it was that simple. But it isn't. In fact, if you have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder,...

S2 E8 Unforgivable Behavior

by Amanda Hess | May 31, 2022

When you have been diagnosed with BPD, you probably have a pretty good library of things you have said and done that you think are pretty unacceptable. Maybe you've thought it or even other people in your life have said it. I too have done and said things that I...